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Friday, September 23, 2011

Metopic synostosis

We recently found out that Aliyah has Metopic synostosis
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Craniosynostosis is a condition in which one or more of the fibrous sutures in an infant skull prematurely fuses by ossification, thereby changing the growth pattern of the skull. Because the skull cannot expand perpendicular to the fused suture, it compensates by growing more in the direction parallel to the closed sutures. The resulting growth pattern provides the necessary space for the growing brain, but results in an abnormal head shape and sometimes abnormal facial features. In cases in which the compensation does not effectively provide enough space for the growing brain, craniosynostosis results in increased intracranial pressure leading possibly to visual impairment or an impairment of mental development combined with a significant reduction in IQ.

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Trigonocephaly is a result from the premature closure of the metopic suture. Using Virchow’s law again to predict the resulting deformity, this fusion will result in a narrow forehead, which is even further emphasized by ridging of the suture. Compensatory growth occurs at both the coronal sutures, thereby pushing the forehead forwards. The resulting shape can best be assessed from a top view again, which will reveal a somewhat triangular form of the head. Trigonocephaly is also a Greek derived word, which can be translated as triangular shaped head. A facial feature of metopic synostosis is hypotelorism; in the frontal view, it can be seen that the width between the eyes is smaller than usual


The aims of surgery are to allow normal brain growth by providing an adequate space within the skull. The ideal time for surgery, is usually between three to six months of age because bones of the skull are easy to work with at that age, and the covering of the brain, known as the dura, can make bone on its own. Early surgery also provides the growing brain with the ideal surroundings and facilitates normal future shaping of the skull. Although surgery is done early in life, there is no upper age limit for surgery. Usually, one surgery is required to correct children with simple craniosynostosis; however, some may need minor alterations at the age of four or five.
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(Incision from the top of the ear
to the top of the ear)

Aliyah is getting the Traditional surgery for craniosynostosis, which is usually performed via a bicoronal skin flap (across the top of the head from ear to ear). A generous craniectomy to "reopen" the prematurely fused sutures with extension to the adjacent sutures, in addition to restructuring or remodeling of the involved skull bones when required, is the basic procedure.

Cranial Molding Helmet

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The cranial helmet is used to remold the head into a symmetrical shape as the baby grows. It allows the flattened areas to round out and prevents the bulging areas from bulging more. The helmet does not put pressure on the baby’s head, but rather guides the growth to specific areas to improve the head shape. It is very important to start treatment early since the growth of the head slows down after the age of 12 months. Usually the earliest an infant can start wearing a helmet is at 5 months. Infants younger than that typically do not have the appropriate strength in the neck and head muscles to control the movements of the head. It is also important for the baby to be screened for other conditions that may have caused the uneven head growth.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Aliyah at 2 1/2 months old you:

Photobucket Photobucket * such a good eater you take breast milk and formula ( but you prefer breast milk.) & you eat every hour. *you are starting to smile and interact more with people * you dont cry as much. * you have a herniated belly button which had gone down a lot, you also have craniosynotosis *you SCRATCH, KICK & PUNCH pretty hard for a baby. i won't be sad when this phase is over. i have battle wounds from you, baby girl. *you are in 0-3 month clothes. you wear everything only once then it doesn't fit anymore! *you love flashing lights, music and now your new thing thanks to evelyn is people singing and dancing for you!

Friday, September 16, 2011

Dear Aliyah,

I am so lucky to have shared your first two months with you. I have learned how valuble and wonderful time truly is. I remember it like it was yesterday. I was 20 weeks pregnant and your daddy and I just found out we were having a baby girl. In life there are some moments that feel so slow that we just want to rush through everything. I have enjoyed and soaked up each second of every minute of every day with you. My love for you grows more and more each day. I can't believe how much I love you and how much I love your dad. I never imagined that I could feel a love this big and strong before- it's like endless butterflies in my stomach. And it is you and Daddy that have really given me purpose these days. dreams I have of sharing love and happiness with you and Daddy. I hope that you will be able to see, feel, and live that dream with me. I am here to love you forever and to cherish each moment with you. I hope you carry that love for others and that thankfulness for time throughout your life. Let love be your purpose too, my darling. Love you always, Mommy

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Being a Mommy

Photobucket In the first couple days, when I got a few minutes of silence, I found that I have so much purpose now, Having a baby doesn't just mean a lifestyle adjustment; I have to figure out how to reinvent myself.I want to show her how to be a good person, and to know that she is loved and important. I need to figure out a way to tell Aliyah how proud I am of her for just existing. I almost wish that I'd taken a couple minutes to say goodbye to myself-- I had a plain simple and lazy life right before i had Aliyah. People really aren't kidding when they say that your entire life's about to change when you have a baby. When she came into this world, I began a new love affair with a tiny bundle of joy, and motherhood felt completely natural and strange at the same time. I lost focus on most of the things I once revolved my life around - makeup, music, hair, fashion, celebrity gossip and TV shows - My life now is revolving around Aliyah.. After six weeks home with Aliyah I suddenly realized that I'm not going to be able to devote hours and hours of time to self indulgence anymore. There really aren't full hours of anything, except Aliyah time.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

1 Month old!!

One Month Old!!


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What?! OK this is crazyy!!! #1 I have a baby #2 I am a mother and #3 My baby is 1 month old!!! And most importantly I have managed to keep my baby alive, safe and healthy for a whole month!!!! Best mommy ever!!!!
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Baby Aliyah now:
*She is already responding to my voice.
*she loves classical music
*She’s her daddy’s child alright, Without a doubt. She looks so much like her daddy it’s scary. There’s a few features that resemble mine, but for the most part, she’s all daddy!!!
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my baby

Aliyah has been here only a couple weeks and has already captured my heart....I am just so amazed that my little precious baby was growing inside my stomach just a few weeks ago.....it's unbelievable...=)
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Just looking at her melt my heart!!! I don't care how tired I am or how much sleep I'm not getting, her little smile just says: "I love you....thank you for taking care of me mama!"....and i fall in love with her all over again =)!!
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Aliyah Lanea Torres

Hello world. I'm here!!.......
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Aliyah Lanea Torres born on July 6, 2011 at 11:31a.m 6lbs. 4.8 ounces measuring at 19 in long with a full head of dark brown hair. I love her so much.
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Monday, June 27, 2011

38 weeks!

Holy cow- only 1 week and 6 days to go before our little girl arrives!!I’m 39 weeks pregnant!!! and 2 cm dilated!!
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My bottom half feels like it’s gonna fall out from under me. Aliyah is growing like a weed and I can definitely feel it.
How am I feeling these days?

tired. I’ve been taking naps about twice a day.
peeing every 25 minutes.
having a lot of pressure.
feeling her every movement.
Been having contractions, and lower back pain.
my feet hurt A LOT!

That’s about it I get asked a lot what I’ve been craving- honestly, this entire pregnancy I've been craving ice cream and candy corn, I've had a lot of temporary cravings also (like chex mix bars and popcorn =) )

What’s Aliyah up to this week?

This week, Aliyah isn't so little anymore, weighing close to seven pounds and measuring 20 inches long o_O! She is producing more surfactant,(a substance that prevents the air sacs in his lungs from sticking to one another once he starts to breathe.) Most of the changes this week are small but important: She’s continuing to add fat.

O God help me!! She can turn her head from side to side, and her arms, legs, and body are beginning to plump out as needed fat accumulates underneath her skin. She’s moving a lot, too, so I have a lot of trouble sleeping because she kicks and somersaults keeping me up. All this moving is a sign that Aliyah is active and healthy. That’s my Girl!!


Hospital bag. What to pack?



Must-Haves:

[ ] Insurance info, hospital forms and birth plan
[ ] 2-3 pairs of Socks
[ ] A robe
[ ] 2 maternity bras -- no underwire -- and nursing pads
[ ] Lip balm
[ ] Toiletries and personal items -- hairbrush, toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, face wash, makeup,lotion.
[ ] Glasses
[ ] Headband or ponytail holder
[ ] candy
[ ] notebook and pen (for questions to ask the doctor and some tips to write down.)
[ ] Snacks
[ ] Cell phone and charger,
[ ] Camera, film or extra memory card, battery and charger.
[ ] Husbands clothes.
[ ] Extra pillow and boppy pillow.
[ ] My going-home clothes
[ ] Bath towel
[ ] Hairdryer/ straightner
[ ] Soap, shampoo and conditioner
[ ] A few pairs of maternity underwear that can get ruined
[ ] A nightgown
[ ] Slippers
[ ] My Ipod
What to Bring For Baby:

[ ]Car seat
[ ] A going-home outfit
[ ] Warm blankets

Thursday, June 16, 2011

36 Weeks

Aliyah this week..
 Is considered full term at the end of this week. The only organ that still needs some time to mature is her lungs.  
This week, she drops further into the birth canal getting ready for  delivery. This makes breathing a lot easier for me, but walking becomes much more difficult.  She constantly  stretches into my ribs and bangs her head against my cervix. She is surely beginning to run out of room in there. 
She is a good  19 inches long and 5 ¾ pounds in weight. She is gaining more fat every day, and may be even forming her cute little dimples around her elbows and knees. Her gums are very rigid, and she will be ready to nurse or bottle-feed when she is born.

As for me...
Last month! I've  finally made it. This  past week has proven to be the most uncomfortable week so far. She has  grown into such a strong baby and it seems at times  she is trying to find her way out. I’ve managed to gain about 30lbs.  The anticipation of locking eyes with her has completely taken over my every thought. I’m dying to know what she  looks like!
We’re so close!! The final stretch! Very soon you will be in my arms. :)  My feet are swelling, I have some  varicose veins, back  pain, along with constant poking in my ribs!
My hospital bag is all packed and ready to go! 
Can't wait!!! :) 

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Ice cream =)

Lately I’ve been in a HUGE ice cream mood.I never turn down a big bowl of sprinkled ice cream or an ice cream cake =) ooooh yeahhhh. I blame Aliyah... oh yeah, she’s totally the reason why I’ve been craving dairy so much…(ahem) in the form of ice cream :0)
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what my baby wants my baby gets ;)

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Tuesday, June 7, 2011

35 week ultrasound of baby Aliyah.

Hello hello!
 I was soooo excited for this day. Finally, after 8 months of anticipation, we finally got to see our baby girl all fully formed and ready. She is about 5 pounds now and has no space to do anything. 
Say hello to  aliyah :) 
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her arm in her face =)
O god she looks like her father from this angle lol :) 
I will have you know that I did not cry : )  however, I did 
 Tear  up a little bit thought ( come on she is such a blessing its crazy how i grew her in my uterus for 8 months now and shes a little person like wow?! .....We made Her : ) ) but our ultra sound technician  lady was such a mood killer it was like she had no personality and someone needed to slap her lol  ( as my husband put it lol)  and she  didn't say a word ( like helloooo what the hell are we looking at, is she in the right position?!?! .....  Is she ok?!?  ............ Ummm something ????!!!!) and she gave us only 2 pictures and there not even that good ( jerk) Anyway besides that were having our baby shower in two weeks :)  can't wait!!  

Babies. Are. Miracles. & God. Is. Good.

Friday, June 3, 2011

10 hard facts on marriage...

#1 There will be one disagreement in your marriage that will never be resolved--and you will never agree on what it is! The earlier you identify and accept it, the better. Encourage your partner to do the same with his or her complaint.

#2 You can only change yourself. This is as intellectually obvious as it is emotionally challenging. Important to remember when struggling with #1.

#3 Be stoic about your own (no doubt herculean) efforts. If you want it done, do it and don't expect praise. Yes, I am unfortunately thinking specifically of housework here. Reframe the task(s) as maintenance and improvement you do for yourself alone. This helps, because the corollary (3b) is: Don't expect anyone else to notice what you do. For all intents and purposes, you are doing it for yourself!

#4 You chose each other. Your spouse is the only family member you will ever select. Because it is a self-directed relationship, you will evolve together in a way no other intimate relationship can. This can be exhilarating, as when you establish new traditions and a new familial baseline. It can also be frustrating and scary: No roadmap, and the prospect of "de-selection" in the offing, however abstractly. 

#5 Life necessitates trade-offs, your relationship and partner included. The qualities that frustrate you are intimately connected to the qualities you love.

#6 The social fabric of marriage is lovely, but it is not what marriage is about. The diamond rock, the social approval, the identity as a huband or wife.... these facets matter but they are a distant second to the intrinsic connection between the two of you.

#7 The outside world sees mainly these secondary characteristics (#6), and is therefore apt to misjudge your relationship. Ignore their judgments.

#8 A good relationship is made better by adversity. Again, not worth highlighting what can happen in a bad relationship. But I've seen plenty of on-the-fence relationships bump up a notch after challenges.

#9 Take responsibility for your own satisfaction. Keep your partner privy to your goals, dreams and of course frustrations, but do not confuse this with making him or her accountable for these feelings or outcomes. Likewise, help him to realize his own dreams.

#10 Never forget the moment you first connected. The way you felt about one another then, and in the weeks and months after, is a reminder of your potential to connect, no matter how much time has elapsed.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

35 weeks!!

I am just about 35 weeks pregnant!! Only 4 more weeks to go!

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What’s Baby Aliyah up to this week?

Well Aliyah is standing tall (so to speak) this week at about 20 inches and continues her steady weight gain (she’s about 5.5 pounds). While she won't get much longer, she will continue to pack on those last few pounds right up 'til delivery day.
Cute, we love chubby babies!
There’s a lot going on inside that tiny head head of hers, which is, by the way, still soft to allow an easier exit through the birth canal.


As the days go by I’m getting more and more excited to meet our little princess. This Monday we’re having the Last ultra sound done. =D


How do I feel?

I’ve been feeling very tired mostly in the mornings, its hard to sleep im always waking up in the middle of the night either to go to the bathroom or craving something =). I'm slow and always out of breath, and very uncomfortable sitting, stand, even laying down. but other than that, it’s been business as usual. I’ve gained about 30 pounds now.

Nursery Update.

Umm, we haven’t exactly started that yet =/.. we really need to we are looking for an apartment and i think we've found one soo fingers crossed =)! We’re having our baby shower in two weeks. (soo excited) I’m dying to start fixing our apartment and putting up everything now ughhh its killing me! Eventually everything will come together, so I’m not worried about it (yet.)

Yay! Exciting next few weeksahead.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Thoughts on becoming a mother

Photography,Mother & Daughter,Mother And daughter,Lexi,Lexi and adrian,Colorful,beautiful,love There are many women that can just have a baby  and be mothers without effort, without thought, without patience or loss and though they are good mothers and love their children, I know that I will be just as good a mother and even better.
I will notice everything about my child.
I will take time to watch my child sleep, explore and discover.
I will marvel at this miracle that God gas given me every day for the rest of my life.
I will be happy when I wake in the middle of the night to the sound of my child, knowing that I can comfort, hold her and feed her.
I count myself blessed in this sense; that God has given me this insight, this special vision with which I will look upon my child.
 This child that God has given me I  promise I will not be careless with my love. 
I have learned to appreciate life.
Yes I will be a wonderful mother.

Monday, May 23, 2011

Tips for pregnant girls

Photobucket * yes I know  you don't want to do the pregnant girl waddle... But it takes up so much energy and time to walk like you use to so just give it up and Waddle :) it feels so much better. 
* you MUST eat!! Before you go to bed no question about it, It helps you sleep better.

*Never, ever postpone even the slightest urge to pee. That UTI will attack your bladder in seconds flat.

*If you get a feeling the OB you chose isn't  listening to what you have to say change to a different one. When you have your blood drawn by a nurse who searches frantically for a cotton ball while you sit there bleeding on yourself, no, your standards are not too high. Lol

*Don't compare yourself too much to other pregnant girls, everyone's body is different, pregnant or not.

*Only those uncompromising pregnancy hormones could cause you to declare war on your husband, your best friend in the world, during such an exciting time. Take deep breaths. Hope he understands.

*If someone doesn't comment on your oh-so-obvious pregnant status, that doesn't mean they aren't thinking about it. Stand near them for more than two minutes, and they'll say what they're thinking.

*Accept that you're going to be stared at. If someone isn't gawking at the belly, they're probably stressed or something's wrong with them.

*Smile at other pregnant girls.

*A lot of people look down their noses at you if you admit you're hoping specifically for a boy or a girl. Say you just want a healthy baby. That happens to be a girl. :)

*Mix a childcare book or two into your pregnancy book collection.

*Write down questions before your OB appointments - even if you already know the answer - so you don't feel as gipped when it's over in five minutes.

*Crunchy things make the most satisfying food. Mmm...

*Shopping at your favorite pre-preg clothing stores (with intent to buy XL sizes) during the third trimester will probably make you feel sad.

*Don't pick a baby name that you wouldn't mind being named yourself.

*Try laying flat on the floor when your back hurts.

*Babies R Us sells Motherhood Maternity clothing. This saves you a trip to the mall, especially since you spend all your shopping time at Babies R Us anyway. Baby Gap also has some impressive baby gear.

*Don't feel bad swiping your hubby's second pillow to wedge behind your back when you sleep.

*It's fun to smile at baby kicks. Although I'll admit that the hiccups lose their cuteness after a couple episodes.

*Pregnancy is a privilege that not everyone is blessed with. Be really thankful and excited God gave it to you.

Hello! :)

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My name is Amanda I am 19 years old and currently 33 weeks pregnant with our first daughter, I am also married to my boyfriend of 6 years Jose. We  spent 3 years of our relationship  learning  and growing from each other, and the last three years we spent madly in love, and now were having a baby girl!! :D
I made this blog so itll be easier for me to update on my daily life and struggles on teen  pregnancy ,marriage,motherhood,the way I feel  and things that just happen everyday.

I am girlie makeup. Hair. Clothes.  Excite me. 
Food is my world!
If i could be anywhere i would be at home with my husband  laying down, watching a movie, and ordering takeout :) I think every girl should wear what she likes  be unique and confident about themselves.
 I lovee going to the gym and the after feeling of a really good workout :D
 i love romance, and just a kiss my the forehead or the tip of my nose from my husband makes me feel so special and makes my heart melt :)  
My biggest fears are SPIDERS, being alone, failing, and not being able to see my children grow up. That's  just a little bit about myself and.....
Welcome to my bog! :)
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